The Job Interview

 I had the interview today, and I am not sure how it went. I would like to think I am an articulate person, but I am not very satisfied with the answers I gave. Yesterday, I talked about how my career trajectory is made up of me running away from things and discovering some things I enjoy in the process. Maybe the reason the interview didn't go as well as I had hoped is I couldn't fake enthusiasm for the job enough.? I didn't find my answers convincing enough and it showed? No point in thinking about it too much. This is going to be a long weekend, not helped by the fact that I have injured my elbow and won't be able to work out on Sunday. I just have to try to either relax, or if I can't relax, to get some grading done. 

Job Interview at UWE Tomorrow

 So, tomorrow I have a job interview at UWE. I fancy my chances but I am remember that I also fancied my chances the last two times I applied there. I had thought "why wouldn't they take me?". And, they didn't. This my best shot at getting a permanent job, which also increases the pressure. If I can't land this, will I ever be able to land another one? Yes, I am not dying to work there. But, sometimes I feel like life has become quite a drag and I can't muster enthusiasm for anything. So, what is the option? Fake it till you make it? If I don't get a job before my visa expires next summer, I will have to return to India, which is an outcome I want to avoid. I realise my life trajectory has been determined by the stuff that I don't want to do. Yes, in the process, I have discovered what I want to enjoy. And, being clear about what you don't want is the next best thing to being clear about what you want. I don't want to teach at Bristol another year--I don't want to teach mainstream economics any more, I don't want o hand-hold students through their master's dissertations, and I don't want to grade another 1k-word research proposal for a 2k word essay. So, that is settled then. I must give it my all tomorrow, and I can save the existential ruminations for later. 

Me as a PhD Discussant

So today was the day of the Full Draft Dissertation Seminar of a guy was already a PhD when I was a master's student at ISS. I was a bit nervous too, since this was my first time commenting on someone else's PhD thesis. Aware that I had been drafted on the implicit understanding that I would not cause too much trouble, I made sure that I wasn't too critical while at the same time offering meaningful comments.  At this stage, I thought there is little point in finding fundamental problems with someone's work. My job is to offer comments to make it acceptable, so I held back, Having recently defended my PhD, I am aware how much one is at the mercy of the examiners. I have also realised that PhD theses are full of holes, and if one is zealous about finding them, there is no end to them. And its easy to shatter the fragile confidence of a final-stage PhD student.

I needn't have worried about being too critical. I was, by far, the nicest discussant. Some of the others just let rip at him, and I felt bad for him. Imagine thinking you are at the end of a long journey and being told by one discussant that you still have a long way to go, and by other that you are on the wrong path. I remember how I felt back in the summer of 2021 after I had submitted my full draft to my supervisor, and was told that it would still require a good amount of work. The other discussants either had finished their PhDs long ago, or had not yet finished their PhDs so maybe they could not empathize with him they way I could. Anyway, I did what I could.

The Game

 Today, I learnt that meetup groups are a place where men actively prospect for dates. After meeting someone they are interested in at a meetup event, it is quite normal for men to drop them a message asking them out for a coffee. Its not that I thought these things didn't happen. Its just that I didn't think it was very common. Come to think of it, it makes perfect sense. Why shouldn't single people prospect for a relationship. But, it does make me feel a bit alienated from the scene. I haven't met anyone whom I have felt like messaging after a meetup. Its not that there are any attractive women on these meetups. Its just that I haven't felt that spark with anyone yet. Maybe I don't make enough of an effort to talk to women at these events. Maybe I should make a point to talk to all the women I find attractive. We still live in a heteronormative world where men are expected to do the hunting, to put it very crudely. I was hoping to finish on a positive, uplifting note, but can't think of anything right now. For the next five days, my dating life will have to take a back seat. I have a job to land, and I am determined to do my damndest to land it. 

Clocks Go Forward 2023

The clocks go forward tonight, marking the end (hopefully) of an exceptionally cold winter. The cold has given way to storms, so things haven't started to look up on the weather front. But, as is my tradition, I use these occasions to reflect on the time since the last clock change. I don't have a blog entry for the end of British Summer Time 2022 because it was during my lean blogging phase. So, I went back to my posts before that. And, I have reached the conclusion that life is much better than it was during 2020 and 2021. That might seem like not a very surprising. But, caught up in one's current problems and tribulations, it is easy to forget. I have been on bit of a melancholy phase lately, so its an important reminder that life is on the upswing, even if I can't tell from the inside. I have managed to move out of my previous accommodation and put my housemates from hell out of sight and out of mind. Next up is a job interview, which I am going to do my damndest to ace. So, yes, I might still be single and occasionally lonely, and wish I had more and better friends, but that doesn't mean everything is shite.  

Last Day of Teaching Before Easter

 I was hoping that no one would turn up for today's class, but I was wrong. They did turn up, and they were even more bored and unenthusiastic than usual. I got yawned at, and two girls started chatting while I was lecturing. Since there were just about 10-12 people in the classroom, I was a bit miffed. I was also quite unhappy with the lecture I had prepared, and if I had the time, energy and the inclination, I would have completely revamped it. The bollocking I got on Monday for crossing the picket line has snuffed what little joy I would find in teaching. But, I suppose that is just the fatigue talking. Eight straight weeks of teaching can be quite tiring, even though I feel like my teaching load is pretty manageable. If I get the UWE job, my teaching load will likely be much heavier. But, we will cross that bridge when we reach it. No point in worrying about it for now. 

How to Punch Down and Punch Up at The Same Time

I tell my friends from other countries that India has so many overlapping layers of oppression that it is possible to punch down at the same time. Exhibit A: this evening I watched a stand-up routine on Youtube poking fun at Modi by mocking chowkidars. It takes guts to make fun of Modi, so respect to the comedian. But, punching down at chowkidars? Not cool. at the risk of sounding patronizing, I am sure the comedian did not realise he was punching down. Punching down is a huge element in Indian comedy. Making fun of disabled people, dark-skinned people, fat people,  is par for the course. So, jokes aimed at lower castes/classes is not surprising. Thinking about these things makes me feel sanctimonious, and I don't enjoy feeling that way.